Today I was having a discussing with my friend on marriage We both had same views that we don't want to get married. We don't want responsibilities. We want freedom and a good career. We want our dreams to be fulfilled rather than having a child and compromising with that. She was afraid about one more thing. A husband who cheat.
I was also afraid that such a cheap person will come to my life and that's why I told my family I am not going for marriage. But not now anymore. Not because I am confident I will get a person who love me truly and deeply. True love, that's crap. Its because I don't care anymore.
She said if her husband have an extra martial affair, she will divorce him that spot. But I had a different viewpoint. Why divorce and why live with that?
What will happen if I divorce such a husband? He will finally marry that woman and both will live happily. But what about me. What will I do? See all these and live my damn crap like lonely life with depression and hatred. Why should I?
Hence I will not. I will not allow him to leave my side till I find someone and till I move on. Till that point I won't allow him to even spent time with her. Till I also cheat on him the same way he did, he should suffer like I will suffer then. Till I move on, he should remain with me. He can't go for her at any means. Because I don't want to end up pitiful and lonely.
For that she asked but how will you do it? What if he says that he will not stay with me? Well I won't give him any choice. He can do anything before his family. But not in front of his society. Society will be my weapon. The same society who he will fear. The same society that will see me pitiful, will be my weapon. Because now all fear what others will think. Hence I won't divorce till I find another person and till I move on.
I was also afraid that such a cheap person will come to my life and that's why I told my family I am not going for marriage. But not now anymore. Not because I am confident I will get a person who love me truly and deeply. True love, that's crap. Its because I don't care anymore.
She said if her husband have an extra martial affair, she will divorce him that spot. But I had a different viewpoint. Why divorce and why live with that?
What will happen if I divorce such a husband? He will finally marry that woman and both will live happily. But what about me. What will I do? See all these and live my damn crap like lonely life with depression and hatred. Why should I?
Hence I will not. I will not allow him to leave my side till I find someone and till I move on. Till that point I won't allow him to even spent time with her. Till I also cheat on him the same way he did, he should suffer like I will suffer then. Till I move on, he should remain with me. He can't go for her at any means. Because I don't want to end up pitiful and lonely.
For that she asked but how will you do it? What if he says that he will not stay with me? Well I won't give him any choice. He can do anything before his family. But not in front of his society. Society will be my weapon. The same society who he will fear. The same society that will see me pitiful, will be my weapon. Because now all fear what others will think. Hence I won't divorce till I find another person and till I move on.
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